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Going to school can be fun when balanced with lighter and more motivating activities. Often times, kids have a negative image of the school. This is especially true when the school opening looming closer right after a long vacation. So as a parent, what do you do to make things better?
Well, the easiest thing you can do is help your kids learn how to find a great balance between school and fun. This will help lessen the negative feelings that can come with going to school. A school is primarily a place for kids to learn.
It should also be a place where they can have fun. To do this, they have to find the right balance between the two.
Here are some tips for you to introduce to your child.
Come up with a schedule together
Encourage your child to make a daily or weekly schedule. Keep in mind that making a schedule for your child and making a schedule with your child are different things. When you get your child involved in the scheduling, he/she will stick to it. That’s because your child would have given his/her own input.
You can ask your child what he/she wants to do for fun. Allow your child to take the lead when making the schedule. This makes it more fun and it gives your child a sense of freedom. When children don’t feel restricted, then they are able to balance school and fun better.
Nurture and encourage a love of learning
This is one of the best things you can do for your child. You can start this by thinking of fun activities which are educational too.
You can look for enjoyable educational toys for your child. Or you can even search online for educational activities which are entertaining. When your child realizes that learning can be fun, he/she won’t be as resistant to it.
Children who love to learn are able to balance fun and learning well. They become more focused on their studies. Also, since they are more willing to learn, the school doesn’t become a chore. Instead, it becomes an enjoyable part of the daily routine.
Find the right balance in all aspects
It’s important to help your kids find a good balance between school and fun. But that doesn’t mean that you ignore all other essential aspects. Your home life should also be stable too.
No matter what kind of family you have, your child needs to feel secure in it. Children have to feel safe and loved before they can work on other things.
Another important thing to consider is your child’s health. If your child is not healthy, all these tips won’t be very useful. Make sure your child is physically and emotionally healthy. Do this to make it easier to balance all other aspects.
When they work hard, they should be allowed to play hard
Think of yourself and your work. After a long day’s work, all you want to do is put your feet up and relax at home. Or after a whole week of working, you can’t wait until the weekend. The same goes for children. After being in school, they deserve to have fun and play at home.
Our first tip dealt with making a schedule with your child. This schedule should contain equal amounts of time for studying and for play.
After school, you can assign an outdoor play time. Then after homework, you can allow for other fun recreational activities indoors. It’s all about finding the right balance which your child will be happy to do.
Make happiness the number one priority
When dealing with your child, remember to make happiness the first priority. That’s why you involve your child in making his/her daily or weekly schedule. Children shouldn’t feel like they are being forced into anything they don’t like doing.
If you find your child struggling with school, find ways to make it better. Link your child’s interests to his/her subjects in school to make them more interesting.
Reinforce the learning your child gets in school. You can do this by thinking of activities which are interesting and entertaining. When children are having fun while learning, then they remember what they learn more.
This is also why play should be a big part of their daily routine. No matter what kind of play children are doing, they learn new things. They learn to socialize when they are playing with other children. They learn life skills when they are playing pretend.
Helping your kids find a good balance between school and fun is all about understanding them. Understand their needs and their wants so you can help them out effectively.